One thing that I have always found curious is our habit, upon meeting new people, to immediately ask them what they do for a living. Why is this? Does someone’s job or career define them or is it the most telling clue to knowing who they are, at their core? I doubt it, even in […]
It’s genuinely been a great year, one of my best to date. I’m counting blessings by the dozen but here are my top three for 2019. #1 – I committed to a new fitness routine that has me feeling stronger and sexier than ever! The first time I took a HIIT Bootcamp Class, I thought […]
She is the young woman in the corner of the cafe engrossed in a latte and a Foucault book. She is the one you can’t keep your eyes off of as you wait for your coffee. She’s the reason you decide to drink it at a table as close to her as you can get rather than […]
Enjoy these stills from my NEW video. In this video, I stayed home, in my own fair city. San Francisco is so photogenic. It’s a more up close and personal video; it’s a look into my typical days, and into me. See the glamorous me who loves to dress, dance, dine and who, of course, enjoys: the finer-things-in-life. […]
I am trying the staycation thing out. It’s hard to relax here at home. I was thinking I would do a lot of yoga, cook, read, disconnect, and be still for some periods of time. So far I slept through yoga (two classes), realized I had no food and so I made a Thai food […]
You already know that I tend towards deviance. I consider myself fairly kinky but sometimes, my kinkiness sits on the back burner – for much too long. Lately, I feel it simmer and then, I remember- Sparkling, multi-colored, multi-faceted gem butt plugs stuffed away in velvet bags in my lingerie drawer that need a shine. […]
I am so sad that Christmas is over. I didn’t even get a chance to say Merry Christmas here so: Merry Christmas! I am still listening to Christmas music, (can’t get enough of Brenda Lee) even after seeing the Dead & Co. last night at Bill Graham Auditorium and having all of those fantastic songs […]
I love when I come across events or happenings that are truly “only in San Francisco.” They tend to be rather extreme and, although the Summer of Love and the beat poets are long gone, these “only in SF” things tend to toe at boundaries, deviate from the norm, and sometimes- shock. The Folsom Street […]
Many of you know how much I enjoy my yoga practice and some of you have asked me to show you a few poses. So here you go, a quick lesson for all…
Probably not much collectively except our personality type. (Really? Mel Gibson?) This is pretty much spot on for me though I am not quite as selfless and pure as this makes me sound, or as much as MLK, Mother Teresa, and Nelson Mandela, who are also INFJs, were. Find out more or about your own […]
Today is one of my laziest days ever. I managed to sleep until 11. I may not have done that since I was a teenager. My cat, who is used to breakfast by 7, tried everything to get me out of bed and to his food cabinet but I resisted until he just gave up […]
Here are answers to all of the questions I get asked most frequently. Read up and that way, when we next meet, we can skip the small talk and get right to the, ahem, dancing… Q: Do you have a boyfriend or a lover? A: Yes, you, my beloved & cherished client! I have boyfriends […]
She’s been my obsession for just over a year now. It all began when a good friend, with great musical taste, bought her second album The Fame Monster for me claiming, “You gotta hear this; she is the new thing; she has real talent”. He had just caught her show at the large yet intimate […]
Well I have been here for nearly 72 hours now. I thought to be fair, I might wait at least that long before I gush about how amazing this city is! Here are some highlights so far: 1. Everyone is friendly. This is odd because when I look around and see skyscrapers and busy streets […]
There is a first time for everything; we have all been a beginner at everything we do. Often, the first time we do something is remembered as the best time, for years to come. Here is how to make that true of meeting your first escort. Included are tips to help with your selection of […]