Tabitha Layne

Relationships

Generous by Nature

In his best-selling book, Five Languages of Love, Gary Chapman describes the five primary ways people show love. One of them is by giving gifts. That is my way. I love giving gifts. I mean LOVE. Christmas is my absolute favorite time of year. Find me whistling through the mall and boutiques looking for hours […]

Why you have to meet Jeniveve Delacroix

She is the young woman in the corner of the cafe engrossed in a  latte and a Foucault book. She is the one you can’t keep your eyes off of as you wait for your coffee. She’s the reason you decide to drink it at a table as close to her as you can get rather than […]

Bring out the Kink!

You already know that I tend towards deviance.  I consider myself fairly kinky but sometimes, my kinkiness sits on the back burner – for much too long. Lately, I feel it simmer and then, I remember- Sparkling, multi-colored, multi-faceted gem butt plugs stuffed away in velvet bags in my lingerie drawer that need a shine. […]

What Martin Luther King, Nicole Kidman, Mel Gibson and I Share

Probably not much collectively except our personality type. (Really? Mel Gibson?) This is pretty much spot on for me though I am not quite as selfless and pure as this makes me sound, or as much as MLK, Mother Teresa, and Nelson Mandela, who are also INFJs, were. Find out more or about your own […]

A Different Kind of Love

You could accurately say that I fall in love easily. I am a passionate person. I fall in love with ideas (especially entrepreneurial ones!), with places (just add white sand and clear water), and people, often. There is a lot to love in this huge world of infinite varieties and possibilities after all. The people […]

Two ways to view loss

“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.” What a fabulous little phrase coined by Dr. Suess. A shining example of the beauty and power of simplicity. Talk about two ways to see the world! Talk about attitude being everything! Recently, I found a similar quote by Khalil Gibran. Simplicity is substituted by poetics […]

Love is Power

“You don’t wait until you’re on your dying bed and decide to love everybody you hated. No. You begin that now. Love everybody. There is power in love. Love is power.” -Cecil Williams

What Love Is And Is Not

I’ve never encountered a more concrete explanation of the intangible topic of love than what Jack Gilbert offers here. Thank you for sharing this with me (you know who you are). It has become one of my favorite poems of all time. The Great Firesby Jack Gilbert Love is apart from all things.Desire and excitement […]

What No One Talks About

I love to talk about what no one talks about, the taboo, the forbidden, the hidden. And then I usually like to do it. But in this case, I have not done it, but I have a friend who has. No, seriously, I do- a friend. In fact I have a few friends who have […]

A personal interview

Here are answers to all of the questions I get asked most frequently. Read up and that way, when we next meet, we can skip the small talk and get right to the, ahem, dancing… Q: Do you have a boyfriend or a lover? A: Yes, you, my beloved & cherished client! I have boyfriends […]

Write Back Soon

It’s bad, and getting worse. Although I am diligently trying to keep up with my email, my efforts are failing. I don’t even receive a flood of emails everyday, which is why I feel extra bad and have no excuse at all. A small but thankfully steady stream of notes show up in my box […]

You All Know the Story of the Other Woman

Anne Sexton is my favorite poet. She was married to the same man for most of her adult life and carried on numerous affairs with a wide variety of men. She fell in love easily, and frequently, and she wrote about it. This is a poem about being the “other woman” when the morning comes. […]

Work is Love

“Work is love made visible.” – Khalil Gibran When you left today, I kissed you goodbye, and thanked you for spending your precious time with me. I walked you to the door with my hand on your back. My last view of you was from the side, your profile, as you turned to head to […]

Love and Let Go

I believe that we meet each other at exactly the right time that we need each other. It’s easy to know when you’ve found someone who can satisfy your need at the exact  time that it is most critical to you. It happens just when hope begins to slip. You meet someone who reminds you […]

Five Ways To Be a Better Lover

1. Go slow. Yes, there is a time for hot, fast, passionate lovemaking but it is not everyday that your lover is returning from combat or a six month self-realization trip to India. There is no rush. Take your time and be in the moment. Take your time and notice all of your senses being stimulated. […]

Escort Etiquette For Beginners

There is a first time for everything; we have all been a beginner at everything we do. Often, the first time we do something is remembered as the best time, for years to come. Here is how to make that true of meeting your first escort. Included are tips to help with your selection of […]

Beyond Expectation. Beyond Imagination. Beyond Boudior

Beyond Expectation. Beyond Imagination. Beyond Boudior