Category Archives: Tabitha Recommends

Why I Love My Doubles Partners Part One: Sasha Cadeaux

When I first laid eyes on Sasha’s ads, I could sense she was unique right away. Her photos were full of life; her look was elegant, refined and edgy, all simultaneously; even the words she used to describe herself- like “effervescent blonde”- all stirred something inside of me. Soon, I started hearing whispers from trusted people […]

What, no reviews?

I don’t participate in the review system any longer, despite being a top ranked provider in my city with plenty of 10/10 reviews. There are many reasons for my withdrawal. The festering misogyny that the review culture encourages aside, the primary reason is that I think too many reviews on the national board(s) are completely […]

Does X=Y?

I’m not a Millennial. I checked Wikipedia, which can’t be wrong, plus I can self-identify with whatever generation I choose. Besides, I am at the cusp, precisely. Many “researchers” would say I am an X-er, fair and square though there is a gray line, drawn somewhere in the early 80’s. I believe that with the […]

The Lost Art of Relaxation

I am trying the staycation thing out. I started today. This is harder than the beach and maybe even camping. I was thinking I would do a lot of yoga, cook, read, disconnect, and be still for some periods of time. So far I slept through yoga (two classes), realized I had no food (and […]

Christmas is Dead

I am so sad that Christmas is over. I didn’t even get a chance to say Merry Christmas here so: Merry Christmas! I am still listening to Christmas music, (can’t get enough of Brenda Lee) even after seeing the Dead & Co. last night at Bill Graham Auditorium and having all of those fantastic songs […]

Three Inches of Practical

Living back in San Francisco requires proper gear for a climate that is always foggy, windy, and cold. And don’t forget the hills. I downgraded to a three inch heel (down from my usual six) for practical purposes, namely, those relentless hills. I added the ankle strap to compensate for the possible loss of sexiness […]